Reader Comments September 2002 - April 2003
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September 12, 2002
Thanks, I came across this site by accident, and your comments and tips are making a lot of sense to me
Meg
Sept 23, 2002
Thank you so much for sharing your story in the "history" of how this
website came to be. I was involved with my married professor when I was 25 and
he was 43, I was single, and it was so evident that we were in love. I told only
one person and they made me feel like a whore and made him out to be an evil,
evil man. He chose to end the relationship after a year, as he felt that as a
husband and father, he had responsibilities that would only hinder me from
finding my own happiness and family. I felt that was very "selfless" of him.
Now, here it is, 13 years later, and after having corresponded by mail for 2
years, we just saw each other physically for the first time. We've decided to
maintain our marriages and continue our relationship from a distance of 2,000
miles!
I find such comfort and humor here at your website. I also feel not judged
which is so important, as there are very few people I can confide in about my
lover.
Thank you so much for allowing me to express my emotions about this special
man who has added such depth,life and wonderment to my life!
Most sincerely,
Susanna F
Oct 2, 2002
Your site is unique to say the least...we all are adults and know
where we stand in the games of life. Having been married, been cheated on but
have also cheated, I enjoyed it. All of part of lifes great experiences.
Mia
Doug,
I certainly appreciate all your help! I will definitely pay attention next time!
By the way, I really do find the website! I have found it very helpful to read and get ideas and answers from others. I don't feel alone, it's been difficult not being able to share my experiences with. Now I can, anonomously on your website. Thanks for offering a place where people can unload and share their feelings!
Thank you,
Marva
November 11, 2002
If you communicate with your lover via email, always delete history
and the temporary internet files on your home computer after each and every use.
Never use your home account to email your lover. Instead create an email account
using the various search engines (yahoo, excite, etc). Don't use information
that your spouse can easily figure out when creating a separate account just in
case your spouse should stumble upon that account. Usually your work email
address is pretty safe unless your spouse has access to it. Computers like
phones can leave a trail if you are careless
tastydc
December 3, 2002
WOW! I read about this site in my local newspaper and today i found
it. What a relief! It feels wonderful knowing i am not alone. I am involved in a
long term extramarital affair (6 months) with someone 13 years younger and also married. I am
in my 30's and married over 15 years. After catching my husband cheating several
times we sought marriage counselling. It improved how we handle arguments;
however it is still very cold in the bedroom. My husband is no longer cheating
(6 years since) but now feels that sex is such a small part of marriage and that
i am being selfish wanting it. (we have our family now.....what do we need sex
for is his attitude)
Well, I need sex. I need to be loved and i need to feel like a woman. I have
gone 15 years without EVER being kissed. I forgot how wonderful and sensual a
kiss can be ......until now. DO I FEEL GUILTY? ABSOLUTELY NOT! I feel alive and
sexy!! My affair has improved my marriage. My husband and I no longer fight
about sex. If i am not bugging him for sex he is happy.
My only problem here is that my lover is also my next door neighbour and we
are all friends.
BW
December 5, 2002
Wow...I thought I would never find such website in my life time. Your
site has lots of info that helped me out a lot! Thanks be to God! here's a
suggestion for the giveaway habits: Don't lie to your spouse that you gotta go
on a long-driving trip when you don't go anywhere far...just in case your spouse
happens to check the odometer before you leave.
DOLL
January 8, 2003
Thank you for a wonderful site. I have never joined any sort of
on-line "pay" organization before. I am too cautious and too cheap. After
having made the exception for you, I know I will never join another one. No
need to. I have found the person and fulfillment I was looking for, right here.
Thank you for your service, from the bottom of my heart.
Prospector
January 13, 2003
Alot of what is posted I already do. Phone card then put in my own
phone # so if redial is pressed, u get a busy signal!! Email has odd password.
However, my lover who I haven't been with in 3 yrs. is still interested even
though I married a yr. ago. He got nervous the last time we were supposed to
meet and just never talked to me again. Feeling like the spurned lover that I
was, I married my 2nd best choice. BIGGEST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE!! He understands
that, and still loves me as much as I still love him. Now all we have to do is
wait for the right time to get together. Thanks for the extra tips.
averagegal
March 2, 2003
I connected with a wonderful woman who shares many of the same interests and
desires...and GORGEOUS as well! Thank-you Private Affairs!!!
John
April 23, 2003
Dear Private Affairs
I would like to thank you for bringing this wonderful sight to the public. I am
a very new customer and just signed up for your service. As you know the first impression is the best. When I questioned a
billing sytem inquiry you were there to reply to my inquiry pretty fast. Normaly these type of web service providers
never respond. Within a week I had connected with a wonderful woman in my area. Thank you!
Anxious
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