Nasty Reader Comments
Add a CommentThis archive is comprised of emails I have received from people who are not so happy that this website exists... read at your own risk!
January 28, 2006
I read about this website in a play boy magazine (I like the jokes,
I'm serious) and out of sheer curiousity and disbelief I opened the website. I
think men and women that have extramarital affairs because they don't want to
"rock the boat" at home are just big fucking pussys who are too afraid to get
what they really want the honorable way. This website that enhances
extramarital affairs is just adding to the demise to the people of America.
Integrity
September 15, 2005
I just find this unbelievable. The very existence of your website says
something about the state of the world. I am a California male, 41, whose
SUPPOSED friend I just busted with my wife. Needless to say, now as a result of
unbridled lust, two families are torn apart. I am not overly Christian, but I
did and do take my vows seriously. I wish every one of you a scorching case of
Herpes. Cheers!
Jared
August 1, 2005
I do not agree in extramatial affairs. I have been a victim of
deception. The married man who claimed he was legally separated and being
divorced, lied. This is deception. I believed this person and found out through
my own investigations that he was lying. I never intended for any family to
break up because of me. "We" were supposed to be in love and he promised
marriage and a future with me. I feel if people are unhappy in their marriages
they should get out or work on it. They are selfish cowards using other people
for their love and affections. This is dead wrong. I ended it and exposed this
person. The wife defended him and accused me of knowing their marital status. He
pursued me with what he thought would get him in. I only knew what he told me
until I decided to find out the truth, due to his deceptive actions and stories
he presented after we were involved. I personally would never want to be
cheated on or in a relationship that was full of lies. People need to grow up and stop hurting one another. Just be truthfull with yourself
and that would help a lot of needless pain for everyone involved. I am very hurt
by this whole thing and I was sincere in my love. I feel hurt and used and bad
for the hurt of his spouse that his lies caused.
dominique
April 21, 2005
I would just like to know why you would condone this kind of behavior?
People have enough problems without doing something that is totally wrong. I
have had this happen to myself and after it happens you can"t stand the sight of
your partner because they just make you want to puke! I will just add that my
partner was a total idiot by being so careless and not covering his tracks. Most
people that do this will {always} eventually get caught. At least the ones I"ve
known got caught. That saying,what comes around goes around is so true
Lindi
January 13, 2003
I heard about this site on the howard stern show this morning. I just
would like for you to know that what you 're doing is sick and distasteful to
say the least. You must have some morals to encourage people to cheat. If you
love your spouse then there is no reason for cheating- if you don't love your
spouse then you shouldn't be with them. That's it! There is no I love my
husband/ wife but I want to try something else. Most of the people on this site
have kids as well. Did you ever think of them? Of course not! The article on
guilt particularly struck me in a sore spot. Cheating is not just trying to deal
with guilt. Cheating is immoral and wrong... and why is it wrong??!?! Not
because the bible said so or because your parents said so.... Cheating is wrong
because you are hurting the person you are cheating on. Cheating may not cause
emotional stress for the creator of this site but if his wife and kids ever
heard about it they would be heartbroken. So what makes emotional pain any
different from physical pain?!?!? Does it hurt any less.... I think not.... I
think in some aspects it hurts more. So although cheating is not against the
law, assault is and cheating is Emotional Assault.
June 25, 2004
I just wanted to say that your website has ended a 10 year
relationship (5 of it married.) I know in all reality it is my husband to blame,
but if websites like this did not exist, then there wouldn't be as big of a
problem. I have 3 young children that now will be without their father in the
home because of this B.S. I hope that you all at this company can sleep at
night, knowing that you help wreck marriages daily. May someone have mercy on
your soul, because I for one would not!!!!
Lindsay
July 19, 2004
You'd better seek fulfillment in Christ Jesus. I would if I could.
Satan
July 30, 2004
Just a little counseling here for those who are having or are considering having an affair.....view the Philanderes Creed. Implement these suggestions with your wife/husband/SO. Isn't it better to rekindle an old flame than to get burned by a new blaze? If you still insist on having an affair, be an ADULT and get out of your current situation. If not, next time you might be played as the the unsuspecting fool....whether that be when your SO decides to retailiate by either having an affair of their own or simply taking your @#@$%&&& to court.
Disgusted
July 30, 2002
Please consider your wife and the damaged that your doing to
your own soul. If a person tells you that something is wrong they are not
being self righteous, they are trying to help you have a peaceful life.
Don't let satan decieve you any longer, close this website and be free.
Rodger
July 14, 2002
You are one of the worst people on this earth....if you suggest
such services...you ruin marriages of many people...then they
suffer....and many of them never will have happy marriage life because of
you...have yu thought about the children...who lose their parents...and
yes...all of you will burn in the hell...for you are a stumbling stone for
many "commited to an affair" men and women....that would be fair and just
to see you suffer in the hell...and you know that our God is fair and
just...just wait till the judgement day...
Rok
June 25, 2002
I am so upset that a site like this even exists. I am married to
a man who thought it was okay to ignore his wife and four kids to pursue
an EMR. It's my own personal mission to help betrayed spouses discover
what their spouse is doing online so that they can make an informed
decision about whether they want to stay in a relationship with a liar and
a cheat. No wonder PC monitoring software programs are popping up right
and left. Remember nothing on your PC is ever completely safe. I hope
you and your spouses can find a path to true intimacy and happiness in an
honest and honorable way.
angry woman
June 1, 2002
Name: Kitten
I am not a Bible thumper, but I am a spouse who has been hurt by
my H's extramarital affair. I would like to ask you this. Have you ever
thought what it would do to your spouse if he/she found out about your
betrayal? Because I can tell you that the damage you can do to another
human being that you SUPPOSEDLY love is as bad as a death! I wish I could
even begin to describe the pain. If you are as openminded as you claim to
be, I want you to take a look at a message board. Go to ivillage.com, and
go to their Betrayed Spouse Support Board. Read the posts and think that
the people there could easily be your wives or husbands. Then tell me that
having an affair is no big deal
Pissed Off
March 29, 2002
From: EMR Victim
As a victim of EMR I think the persons who use this site are
looking for love in all the wrong places. They certainly cannot love or
care about their spouses at all. They lie to themselves saying they do.
So their lives are virtually an existence built on all lies. How
devastating to them when they wake up in later age and have never been
able to just be themselves without deception. As a victim
I would I never do that to myself so I am certainly not going to let
someone else do it to me either. And who got hurt not me.
Because the
truth has set me free to be me in a real world not just one I thought was
real and was'nt.
Living Laughing Loving and Being Happy EMR Victim
Jan 5, 2002
comments: I hope someday people like you realize they have a psychological
illness.
Janie
Feb 28 2002
As a spouse who just found out about a two year affair her
husband of 12 years had, I find this site devastating and completely
unbelievable! Don't you guys have any respect for the vows that you took
and the committment you made to the person you "supposedly" love more than
anyone else in the world? Do you not have any clue the trauma that is
incurred to the betrayed spouse and their families? My husband and I have
had a monogamous relationship for over 15 years, since we were in high
school. This has completely turned my life upside down! Doesn't anybody
care about the effect you might have on another life? Please, please,
think twice before you act - some people actually take their lives over
this kind of devastation. Do you really want to be responsible for that?
Because you are bored? Or for sex? Or for whatever? Is it really worth
it?
hurt spouse
Jan 30, 2002
comments: I have never been more appalled. I hope all of your spouses
either find out about your extra curricular activities or decides to seek
revenge on all of you pathetic people who want to have EMA w/o even
letting your spouse know about. And for all of you that are married I
hope you feel the financial reprocussions from your retarded choices since
all of you must have an extremely low IQ. What a pathetic and pitiful
bunch you are
Signed, Seething
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